Life, love and the law

Understanding a sexless marriage

Stowe Family Law Season 2 Episode 3

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🎙️Understanding a sexless marriage🎙️

Life, love and the law, a podcast by Stowe Family Law

A sexless marriage is one in which the couple has sex less than 10 times a year, as expert sex therapist Natasha Silverman explains. But the important thing is not necessarily the frequency, but the emotional connection between two partners, and what happens when that disappears.

In this episode of Life, love and the law, host and family lawyer Liza Gatrell is joined by relationship and psychosexual therapist Natasha Silverman to discuss sexless marriages, understanding how they come about and what you can do as a couple if you are struggling with intimacy. They also explore how to know if your marriage or relationship has come to an end. 

00:35 Introductions with Liza and Natasha 

02:10 What is a sexless marriage or relationship

02:50 Key trends among sexless partners

03:52 How do you handle periods of sexlessness in relationship

05:35 How does sexual desire work in men vs women?

06:50 The normalisation of duty and expectation around sex 

08:30 How to recover from a sexless relationship as a couple and as individuals

11:42 What are the common traits of an unhealthy sexual relationship?

13:34 Why do people go through sexlessness in relationships?

15:17 The honeymoon period and what happens after

17:55 Does a sexless relationship lead to cheating?

19:02 How to broach the topic of sex therapy with a partner

20:53 When do you know it’s time to break up?

22:52 Do you need to share why your marriage has ended with a lawyer?

23:50 Moving forward after a sexless relationship

25:55 Top tips if you’re in a sexless relationship

Useful Links

Signs your partner doesn’t love you anymore https://www.stowefamilylaw.co.uk/stowe-support/signs-your-partner-doesnt-love-you-anymore/

Is it normal to have doubts in a relationship? https://www.stowefamilylaw.co.uk/stowe-support/is-it-normal-to-have-doubts-in-a-relationship/ 

How can you tell if your marriage is over? https://www.stowefamilylaw.co.uk/stowe-support/how-can-you-tell-if-your-marriage-is-over/ 

Is it normal to feel unsure even if your relationship looks good on paper? https://open.spotify.com/episode/6hbSuuBZcEPKghfwrmjMzs?si=f182d7fe46c04703 

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